10 RULES TO FORGET THE PAST – 2200 WORDS OF WISDOM – 10 RULES – ABSOLUTE CHANGE FROM WITHIN
Albert Einstein made a statement which opened my eye – ‘If you want to know the FUTURE look at the PAST’. Our past history has a profound effect on our future. If we’ve had a crap past then the chances are we will have a crap future unless we change our FOCKING ways. Forgetting the past is hard. I’ve tried many times but the past always has a nasty habit of catching up with you HOWEVER fast you run. Men who refuse to let go of the past will eventually wither away and die with no purpose in life. They’re so stuck in the past that for them it is impossible to change the way they think. The annoying thing is these men don’t even know what’s blocking their progress in life.
Alpha Gents LISTEN UP! If you’ve had a rosy past then the chances are you’re well on the way to success. If you’ve had a shitty past then this is what is holding you back. Forgetting the past is not easy. This is because of all the negative experiences, wisdom, and thoughts are buried deep in the subconscious. Accessing and healing these thoughts from within will help you to create a better future. Forgetting your past will shift your paradigm on life from negative to positive.
For almost 10 years I’ve been stuck in the past without even knowing it. My future was limited because I had trouble forgetting the past. Every opportunity that came my way was approached negatively because of the shitty past. Forgetting the past was hard but I eventually did it and that is when success came to me – money, power and happiness. I practised a number of habits and developed disciplined and creative thinking. I have gathered all these habits to create 10 rules to help you forget the past. Fuck what any shrink has to say. These rules helped me and it will help you. Try it! What the hell do you have to lose?
10 Rules to Use When Forgetting the Past
Rule 1: Take a Inward Journey When Forgetting the Past
The toughest journey I’ve ever taken was going inwards delving into my past. This is the most important journey anyone can take. This journey is also the one most men avoid because they’re pussies. Recall your childhood. Recall your teenage years. Recall your adult life and think about all the experiences that have shaped you as an individual. Confronting your past history however nasty it may be is the key to forgetting the past.
If you’ve had an abusing past then this exercise becomes exponentially harder. As striving Alpha Men you need to put your fears aside and look regardless of what horrors lurk. Just recalling the moments will help you deal with the problems. Be practical and write down all your experiences. This might be depressing at first but this is the first step you can take to heal your thoughts when forgetting the past.
Rule 2: Make Peace with Others When Forgetting the Past
Most men with troubled minds have been mistreated. Or they have been given wrong information in the past. You can also develop a troubled mind if you yourself have mistreated and abused people. If you’ve abused other people in the past then it’s time to make peace with then. I remember physically assaulting and verbally abusing a kid at school in my before my teens. I totally humiliated him in front of hundreds. I’m not sure why I did it but it troubled me every time I made a serious decision. My line of thinking was I abused this kid so nothing good will EVER happen to me as a punishment. I eventually found this person and made peace with him. I don’t apologise much but on this occasion I did. Forgetting the past can be a lot easier when you make peace with the people you’ve mistreated and abused. Find these people and apologise for your actions.
Rule 3: Forgive People When Forgetting the Past
My childhood was riddled with people who sabotaged my positive thinking. My father was an entrepreneur who was only interested in making and saving money. My mother was religious and blamed the entire world’s problem on money. My older brother was jealous of me because I was much smarter. All these conflicting thoughts were halting my progress. I finally decided to let go of the past by forgiving these people for a lifetime of shitty experiences. My parents are dead but I forgave them anyway. I forgave my siblings in my mind. Forgiveness is great for healing a troubled mind. Forgiveness allows your subconscious to forget the past and focus on the future. Be the FOCKING bigger man and settle your past troubles. Confront these people if you want to or just forgive them.
Rule 4: Focus on Past Happiness
Forgetting the past will make you empty and lonely inside. Instead of forgetting the past completely you need to switch your focus from all the shit that’s happen to all the good that’s happen. Everyone has some good in their lives otherwise they would be dead. Just your ability to live and breathe should bring some happiness to your life. Anal men who focus all their energy on the past are killing themselves slowly. They allocate every bit of energy on getting even, hating, abusing, along with revenge and mistreatment of other people. These men are so fixated on the past that it completely dictates their future. Don’t be like one of these men and find something positive in your life to focus on and build upon.
Rule 5: Create an Alternate Past When Forgetting the Past
The subconscious mind needs something to focus on when forgetting the past. Focusing on happiness is a positive step you can take. To take everything to the next level you need to create an alternate past. Think vividly of all the shit that happen and replace them with a positive past. My mother always said that money was the root of all evil. This is something that was stuck in the mind. I then imagined (created alternate past) my mother saying to me as a child that money is not the root of all evil and that money could be used to help so many people around the world. Creating an alternate past helps to make more progressive and positive decisions in the future. This is not mumbo jumbo as I thought at first. Creating an alternate past helped to settle all the troubles in my mind. I also experienced calm and tranquillity within and was able to sleep like a FOCKING baby.
Rule 6: Rewire You Subconscious Mind
Throughout our lives we accumulate and store information which we believe to be useful. These messages are stored by our subconscious when we’re in a heightened emotional state. These messages are stored when we are happy, sad, elated, dejected and form the basis of our decisions. Understand all the messages which are buried deep in your subconscious mind and determine if they are congruent with the direction you want to take in life. When these message conflict with your future direction your progress is jeopardized. This is because your subconscious and conscious minds are constantly in a tug of war. Remove all the negative messages by dismissing the message and replacing it with a positive message. For example dismiss with – Money is not the root of all evil. Then create a positive affirmation – Money will give me the ability to help so many people. Rewire all the shit messages with positive ones and you’ll begin to see an instant change from within.
Rule 7: Avoid Hatred At All Costs When Forgetting the Past
Forgetting the past is hard because of hatred. Hatred is there constantly reminding us of all the crap that’s happened in the past. The world would be such a great positive place if we eliminated hatred from our lives. Men who hate all the time become negative entities dragging down other people. These people are destructive and feel ecstasy seeing other people’s misery. They think all this schit has happened to me then it should happen to other people. Break out of this cuntish way of thinking by confronting what you hate and then finding the reason for the hate.
In the past I was a cunt who hated rich people because of their wealth. This thought was inadvertently keeping me from becoming rich – Talk about shooting yourself in the foot. I was cutting my own nose to spite my face because I was constantly thinking of bringing these people down. I was a dick not spending enough time thinking creatively to get wealthy myself. Avoid going down the same destructive route. If you hate something or someone find out why. If there is a legitimate reason for hate then forgive these people. If you have an irrational hate then realise you’re being a SPASTIC and move on.
Rule 8: Be Grateful With Everything You Have
Forgetting the past becomes easier when you’re grateful. Gratuity is on the opposite hatred. Therefore filling your mind with gratuity removes hate from the body. Gratuity releases endorphins and removes stress hormones such as Cortisone. Always be grateful with what you have. I have a great partner who understands me. I have a son who adored me. I live in a great house. I have supportive friends and family. Fuck what you don’t have and focus on what you do have. When you focus on what you have you think positively. When you think positively you don’t have stress, anxiety and depression impeding you from progress. Focusing on what you do have helps to achieve your goals much faster.
Rule 9: Show Extreme Kindness When Forgetting the Past
A Story: After the British Rule of India Hindu and Muslims were killing each other. To stop the violence Ghandi (The Father of India) began a fast. After 4 days of fasting Muslims and Hindus stopped fighting to show respect to Ghandi who was responsible for booting the British out of India. One man came to Ghandi and demanded he broke his fast and threw a piece of bread at him. He didn’t want Ghandi’s death on his conscience. He explained that he was Hindu and he killed a 4 year old Muslim child because someone killed his own child (Hatred). Ghandi then advised him to find a 4 year old orphan that was specifically HINDU. The Hindu man was also advised to bring this child up as his own. The only catch was that this Hindu Man he would have to raise this child a Muslim (Kindness). This tremendous act of kindness took all the hatred out of the man’s heart. This kindness made it easier when forgetting the past. This kindness changed the man’s future for the better.
Be kind and remove all the shit that happened in your life. Forgetting the past becomes easier with kindness. Do something great. Help people. Be kind to someone you hate and feel the positivity from within.
Rule 10: Watch Your Thoughts When Forgetting the Past
When you become an expert at watching your thoughts you have more control of what happens in the future. When you watch your thoughts you can find out what’s troubling you in the past and present. You have a better chance of forgetting the past. You can think about these thoughts and then conclude them with positive affirmations. Being aware of what your subconscious mind spits out will help you confront and rewrite the past so you can expect a better future. Seldom do we see western men practicing self awareness. Because of this lack of reflection these ignorant men do not know what they want in life. They turn to shit like alcohol, drugs, Facebook to find remote happiness. Don’t become like these men. Watch your thoughts and replace negative thoughts with positive ones. Rewire your brain with an alternate past and always look forward to life.
10 Rules When Forgetting the Past
These rules are not bullshit. I believe in them 100%. They have worked for me and they should work for you. I have no doubt I’ll get some smart arsed shrink telling me I’m wrong! Who gives a SCHIT! I only see positive results and I’m sharing these positive results with men who need direction in life. Don’t be a pussy. Don’t be afraid. Practice these rules and see what a profound effect they have in your life. I guarantee that you’ll see light at the end of the tunnel. These rules are free and I’m not selling anything because these rules sell themselves. Let go of your past. Create a better alternate past and change the trajectory of your future happiness.